It’s no secret that I love this city. Especially the parts that are best known for food, art, entertainment and nightlife. I know I am no exception.
I don’t know what the heck else to say. I mean, it’s nice to be here and we’re just starting out, but honestly it’s all pretty quiet, what with all the tourists and all the bars. It’s not like I’m a tourist, either. I used to live here but moved to the suburbs after my fiance and I got married.
The fact that it’s a new city (NYC) means that it’s still a hub for a lot of different things (food, art, entertainment, nightlife, etc…) If you want to know what it’s like to live in New York City or the city I’m in, check out this short youtube video.
A good way to get people to connect with you is to tell them about your life on your website and how you came to be in that situation. The most popular reason I have heard people say to me is that they didn’t realize they had no idea where they were going to go next. When I said that to them, they often replied, “but I’m in New York.
The good news is that we didn’t have to invent a new genre of story. The bad news is that we didn’t really invent a new genre of story. We created a new way of looking at things, and that is by asking the question, “What if something like that happened?” The answer is that it probably didn’t happen. The rest is history. But because it did happen, it was a major event in our relationship.
The good news is that we’re in a time loop. We can do that. We can be honest and admit that we made a mistake, but that’s not what we need to do.
When we look back at the past we have no way of knowing what to think about what happened. But we do know that it occurred, and in that moment we were able to tell ourselves that the past could be the future. Looking back at the present we have nothing but the present we have to live in, and that is the present we have to make our future choices from.
You can be honest, and admit that you made a mistake and that you’re better off, but its not going to change the past or the future. You need to make the choice in between what you know to be true and what you know to be false, and in the moment you can choose to be honest with yourself, with loved ones, and with your future.
I’ve met enough people who’ve made the wrong choice in the past or in their present lives that I’ve learned not to make the same mistake. That said, I think a lot of us will regret that we didn’t make the right choice, and I think we would most likely be better off if we did.